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Friday, July 16, 2010

LOVE+FRIENDSHIP

Friends who love each other are more then friends. This is about friends that will do anything for each other. The relationship has passed almost into the realm of a blood relative. Lucky are those who have developed such friendships. They should be as careful with them as if they are handling the most delicate of things. These relationships are rare and only exist between people who have an inherent soul connection. There are few people lucky enough to form this kind of relationship.

I love my Friends!!!

Friendship isn't always easily described. The Eskimos, they say, have a hundred different words for snow. Unfortunately, the English language isn't quite as innovative, though it has vast opportunities to differentiate meaning. Certainly, Love is one of those opportunities. And so, too, is Friendship.
Instead of different words, however, we're stuck with simple adjectives. Close friend. Best friend. Childhood friend. Intimate friend. Trusted friend. Beloved friend. But whether you use adjectives or different words, few could deny the nearly infinite meaning in such a simple word.
Friends are special people. We can't pick our family, and we're sorely limited in the number of them at any rate. Society and mores (and often our own conscience) dictate we select a single mate. But our friends can be as diverse and infinite as the adjectives we choose. Our friends, in a very real sense, reflect the choices we make in life.

Friday, June 18, 2010

Friendship Building Games


Friendship Building Games Activities

One of the best ways to develop friendships with people is to play games. This is widely recognized as a truth, hence why so many companies pack their employees off to do team-building activities or paint-balling once a year. However, the difference between youth groups and businesses is that children are almost always much more willing to let people into their world, and much less willing to prejudge people.

This means that when youth groups play friendship-building games, they are much more likely to have a pronounced effect on group dynamics, and ultimately that they will indeed increase the number of positive relationships in the group. Here, then, are some good games and activities with which youth groups can build friendships.

Trust Games
Everyone has probably gone through the trust game where one has to fall backwards into the arms of one's peers. The idea of this is to instil a sense of trust by showing that the people around you will take care of you and lift you up when you need to be supported. Although the premise of the game is good, and the reactions of participants tend to be quite strong, this particular game has become slightly clichéd. Thankfully, though, there are other trust-based games which are effective in encouraging friendship.

One such game is the Control Tower game which sees one member of the group blindfolded and their partner guiding them through an obstacle course. When they have successfully reached the end of the course, roles are swapped and the course changed. This is very good for establishing communication and friendship, as well as creating a fun and competitive atmosphere.

Another more difficult trust-based game is the Body Lift. This involves teams of eight to ten people, and should only be played with a mature and trustworthy group. Each group chooses one person at a time and lifts him or her up over the heads of the group. The person should be held there for however long you deem appropriate, and then lowered back to the ground very carefully. The person in question should relax and close his or her eyes.

It is helpful for the leader to command each group to do everything at the same time, as otherwise communication can break down, and this can lead to dangerous situations. After each person is lowered to the ground, it can be interesting to ask them questions about their experience and how their opinions of their peers may have changed, though this should only be done if you are an excellent judge of the atmosphere and the honesty of your youth group's members.

Silly Games
These tend to work best with younger children, but they can occasionally also be used with older kids and teenagers. One great silly friendship building game is a version of Musical Chairs with a difference. Instead of removing a player and a chair from the game each time the music stops, only remove a chair! This eventually means that the group will end up having to squeeze onto one chair, of course. Make sure the chairs you are using are sturdy, and also try to ensure that the group is not too big as even the strongest chair will struggle under the weight of 15 overgrown teenagers! This will definitely break any lingering ice between members of the youth group as it is in their interests to help each other not to get crushed.

Another silly game to play with a new group is Silent Interviews. This is very much like a game of Charades, except it involves imparting rather more information, so it can be quite hilarious to see the frantic acting of the children. Split the group up into pairs and have each pair tell each other three things about themselves - but without speaking. When they have had enough time to give it a good go, bring everyone back into the group and have each person introduce their partner, and the things they learned - or at least the things they think they learned! This game reveals interesting facts about each person and helps to build bonds between peers in a very fun, relaxed way.

Never forget that a good game is a great way of building friendships between people. But also make sure that the way you lead the games is both fair and firm; the most likely way for a friendship game to go wrong is if people feel that they have been dealt with unjustly, so concentrate all your efforts on being a just referee, and you won't go far wrong. Here's to many happy friendships as a result of your leadership!

Tuesday, June 15, 2010

Friendship


Friendship to me is something is really treasured and will always remember. It is something that is a part of our life that we will not miss. IT is a very close bonding/relationship with someone. Having friendship is really happy, it's just you experience diferent kind of feeling in this kind of relationship. A feeling that you didn't feel before. Friendship is something that is nurtured. When you have this relationship, you feel like you don't want to let go with your friends. but sometime is in this relationship, fights may arise. but all I can i say about that is... it is just a part of it, it's just some kind of thing that really put ur friendship to the test. Friendship is where you really can become your self, to be with your friends.
But of all this things the most important and really important is that.......FRIENDSHIP IS LOVE!!!